Alex T, London
"When I first heard about tapping I was sceptical, Iíd never done anything like it before and wasnít expecting to see much change. I couldnít have been more wrong. Tapping has made a big impact on me and Iím seeing the differences in all parts of my life." Click to Read More
Nelson Mandela said that "Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies".
If you are holding anger or any other negative feeling towards someone else, then it's YOUR problem, not theirs. It's your problem because YOU are holding that feeling. It's you that is feeling it.
So let's tap it away... we'll do this for you, not for them.
What we're going to do, is find a particular time that you need to forgive this person for, and tap the feelings in that memory.
You may need to repeat this procedure many times, but you'll see it working after the first one. It will get easier and easier and memories will be tapped faster and faster.
So think of someone who you need to forgive.
What feeling is there when you think of that person?
Where do you feel that feeling in your body?
Is there a particular time that jumps out, when you felt that feeling? If there is more than one time, which memory is the strongest?
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